That space is contracted or "bad", this space is open or "good". The ride is rough, or the going is smooth. We are thrown into suffering, we are thrown into joy.
Beloved Soul Mate, find the space in the centre. The pulsing spaciousness encompassing all opposites. Here the essences of creation are at play: earth, water, fire, air, space, and the sense that perceive them. This centre is the dancing ground.
Enjoy your explorations